Wikipedia is right. A behavior can be a phenotype. A phenotype is anything that is observable (E.g. color, size) and that certainly includes behavior.
That does not mean all behaviors will have a simple genetic cause, but some will. For instance, Tay Sachs Disease has a simple underlying genetic cause. In one form of the disease (juvenile TSD) the afflicted person develops cognitive, motor, speech difficulties (dysarthria), swallowing difficulties (dysphagia), unsteadiness of gait (ataxia), and spasticity.
These are all behaviors and they are all part of the phenotype of this disease.
Also, a phenotype can originate from a gene on any chromosome. A phenotype can also originate from the interplay of multiple genes that may be on different chromosomes. In the case of Tay Sachs, the phenotype is caused by a mutation on Chromosome 15.
SECOND UPDATE - if you read the link I provided below you will see that I am right.
Yes, they are symptoms of the disease, but it is still a phenotype because this is a genetic disease. Tay Sachs Disease is not like a virus or a flu, it is caused by a person's genotype. The symptoms of the disease are therefore a phenotype.
In juvenile Tay Sachs Disease the afflicted person develops cognitive, motor, speech difficulties (dysarthria), swallowing difficulties (dysphagia), unsteadiness of gait (ataxia), and spasticity.
All of those things are behaviors.
All of those things are observable. By definition that makes them a phenotype.
And, they are all caused by the Tay Sachs Disease.
The definition of a phenotype is anything that is the observable consequence of an allele. The Wikipedia article on Phenotype is exactly right. If you don't want to believe Wikipedia, then Google "phenotypic behavior" or "behavioral phenotype" and you will find plenty of other references that talk about behavior as a phenotye.