> "In a research only sort of way could someone point me to any scientific proof for ID?"
No.
I accept your point that ID is not Creationism, in that "Creationism", as used in such discussions, almost always involves a Judeo-Christian God, while ID just suggests that there is a "Designer" (or Designers) of unknown nature or provenance.
But before we get any deeper into the discussion - I have to say that no-one can give you any scientific "proof" of ANYTHING. Science does not prove things, it observes things and suggests explanations for things; it might DISPROVE those explanations on further study, but it never, never PROVES anything. Ever.
What it does do is find EVIDENCE for its theories - so I'm going to treat your question as "could someone point me to any scientific EVIDENCE for ID?"
> "I am sick and tired of hearing this and I've learned along the way that scientists are actually extremely close minded and don't like to listen to others without forming a biased opinion first."
The only pre-formed opinion scientists have about any scientific subject is "What is the evidence they are bringing to bear?"
> "if there's anyone out there who's read thouroughly into the theory of ID, would you mind giving me a good resource for it?"
There are plenty of these - try the wikipedia entry for one:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intelligent_design
It evenly discusses the theory and its history, and includes plenty of pro-ID links.
> "I've read about irreducible complexity, and a little about information mechanisms but the technical jargon is not helping me understand the topic."
Irreducible Complexity is the argument that some features of organisms are organised such that they cannot have evolved to be that way. Typical examples include the bacterial flagellum, the bird wing, the vertebrate eye, etc.
Essentially, the argument goes: if I remove any feature of the vertebrate eye (the lens, the retina, etc.), then the organ as a whole ceases to function. Therefore it cannot have been assembled in a stepwise manner, as proposed by the theory of evolution.
Unfortunately, the argument misses the point that that is not how evolution describes anything evolving.
The eye did not evolve: first the lens, then the retina, then the cornea, etc. All these features will have evolved simultaneously: a light-sensitive membrane (proto-retina) will have evolved alongside a transparent, light-focussing structure (lens or cornea).
> "Bsically I'm just trying desperately to find scientific evidence to back up ID, not discredit evolution or say ID is superior or something, just to make it a scientific theory. If I can do this, I should win my debate."
An admirable goal - and one that many people in the pro-ID camp have been attempting for decades. The reason there isn't any evidence out there to easily find is because of the unfortunate lack of any such evidence.
And you've inadvertantly brought up another issue with ID as a scientific theory. For a theory to be scientific, it must display three crucial features: it must be parsimonious, it must be predictive, and it must be falsifiable.
- Parsimony (aka "Occam's Razor") means it is the simplest possible explanation which fits all existing observations. Only if the theory fails to fit all data should greater complexity be introduced. ID introduces a Designer which must necessarily be at least as complex as the thing designed, therefore at least doubling the complexity of the model.
- Predictiveness means the model must make predictions which can be tested by experimentation. ID makes none.
- and Falsifiability means that the theory must, in principle, be able to be disproved. ID could only be disproved by proving that no designer exists - and since it is impossible to prove a negative, it is not falsifiable.
> "It doesn't support a creator in reality, it's more credible ppl are still leaning towards the amino acid theory, oparin's theory or something like that"
Oparin's Theory was one of the first theories of Abiogenesis. This has nothing to do with Evolution or ID.
> "I meant it can support a creator, but doesn't have to"
No - ID supposes a Designer, not a Creator.
A Designer might not have created the universe, but according to ID, the Designer must first have "seeded" life that it/they designed onto earth, and then been constantly involved down the aeons in "tweaking" the life on earth by (for example) designing the vertebrate eye (which only arose 500 million years ago) and then the bird wing (150 million years ago).
> "I have no choice in what I want to think for this debate as my english grade depends completely on it."
Bummer. No offense, but there is no way this should be being debated in an English class, and you should tell your teacher so.
It would be a bit like asking the class to debate Holocaust Denial or macroeconomics. They are both socially contentious issues that should be discussed in the relevant classe